Field Report: A New Venue And Lessons Learned

“Would you like me to give you a formula for success? It’s quite simple, really: Double your rate of failure. You are thinking of failure as the enemy of success. But it isn’t at all. You can be discouraged by failure or you can learn from it, so go ahead and make mistakes. Make allContinue reading “Field Report: A New Venue And Lessons Learned”

Field Report: The Nurse and the Latina

“If you are not willing to risk the usual, you will have to settle for the ordinary.” Jim Rohn The Nurse I was recovering from an illness and hadn’t approached in about a week. I was pumped from a great gym session when I went to the grocery store to pick up some things. AsContinue reading “Field Report: The Nurse and the Latina”

Field Report: My First Fake Number

“Don’t let the fear of losing be greater than the excitement of winning.” Robert Kiyosaki Bookstore Approach I was at a bookstore walking around trying to find both a book and a cute girl to approach. I saw a girl who had a bunch of magazines sitting on a bench. She made eye contact asContinue reading “Field Report: My First Fake Number”

Field Report: My First Big Fiasco

“Success is walking from failure to failure with no loss of enthusiasm.” Winston Churchill “I am married and you’re being…” I was walking around Walmart while waiting for the tires on my car to be changed (for those of you that have ever done that at a Walmart, you know it takes forever) – butContinue reading “Field Report: My First Big Fiasco”

Field Report: Three Numbers in Four Sets

“I find that the harder I work, the more luck I seem to have.” Thomas Jefferson Gym Chick at Target I was shopping at Target on Sunday, had been there in a while and didn’t see any good sets. Out of the corner of my eye I saw a girl walking, and then I lookedContinue reading “Field Report: Three Numbers in Four Sets”

Field Report: I’d Rather Not Chick… And A Lot More!

It is failure that guides evolution; perfection provides no incentive for improvement, and nothing is perfect. Colson Whitehead “I’d rather not!” I was at shopping at Target after work one day, and as I was on my way out I saw a cute chick in the cosmetics section. I had to turn around and goContinue reading “Field Report: I’d Rather Not Chick… And A Lot More!”

Field Report: Some Two Sets and a Kazakh

Seeing much, suffering much, and studying much, are the three pillars of learning. Benjamin Disraeli Showing Balls To Approach a Hottie I was at my local grocery store when I saw what was probably the sexiest girl since I started approaching. She was blonde, great body with curves in all the right places. Surprisingly, IContinue reading “Field Report: Some Two Sets and a Kazakh”

Field Report: Two Sisters and My First Number

He who would learn to fly one day must first learn to stand and walk and run and climb and dance; one cannot fly into flying. Friedrich Nietzsche Opening Two Sisters After my horrible approach anxiety during my first day approaching (you can read about it here), I didn’t know exactly what to expect. TheContinue reading “Field Report: Two Sisters and My First Number”

Field Report: My First Day Approaching

A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. Lao Tzu The Expectations The time had finally come: after much reading and preparation, I had finally decided to do the 100 approach challenge as I talk about here. I decided the best place to approach in my area was the mall, and atContinue reading “Field Report: My First Day Approaching”

10 things I learned from my first 200 daygame cold approaches

Progress is not an illusion; it happens, but it is slow and invariably disappointing. — George Orwell Over the last few months, I have been going out and doing daygame approaches. Here are the ten things I learned from my first 200 cold approaches: Direct approaches work the best As I talked about in myContinue reading “10 things I learned from my first 200 daygame cold approaches”