Tinder Game: My Friend’s Experience As A Model

“In order to succeed, we must first believe that we can.” Nikos Kazantzakis Intro I have been quite busy lately, and haven’t written a post on here in a couple of months. With work, working out, approaching, and hanging out with friends, there was a lot going on. But now with everything shutting down dueContinue reading “Tinder Game: My Friend’s Experience As A Model”

Fixed vs. Growth Mindset: Does The Concept Apply To Cold Approach?

“Becoming is better than being” Carol S. Dweck Introduction Over Christmas and New Years, I had a few days off work and I was visiting some family. I had a book with me as I traveled that I had wanted to read for a while – Mindset: The New Psychology of Success by Carol Dweck.Continue reading “Fixed vs. Growth Mindset: Does The Concept Apply To Cold Approach?”

Field Report: The MILF Bikini Competitor

“Fall seven times and stand up eight. ” Japanese Proverb Intro As you know from my previous field report, I was 3 approaches away from hitting my initial goal of 100 approaches. This is the last field report that talks about my last 3 approaches (one in particular), and at the end I will giveContinue reading “Field Report: The MILF Bikini Competitor”

Field Report: The Pakistani And The Gym Rat

“The only limit to our realization of tomorrow will be our doubts of today.” FDR The Pakistani I was at my favorite grocery store on the weekend when I saw a dark-skinned girl I found attractive – my gut told me that she’s Latina. I opened her direct and she smiled right away, I stackedContinue reading “Field Report: The Pakistani And The Gym Rat”

Field Report: Grocery Store Game

“The real test is not whether you avoid this failure, because you won’t. It’s whether you let it harden or shame you into inaction, or whether you learn from it; whether you choose to persevere.” Barack Obama Grocery Store Game I noticed something at this stage in my daygame journey – I was having aContinue reading “Field Report: Grocery Store Game”

Field Report: A New Venue And Lessons Learned

“Would you like me to give you a formula for success? It’s quite simple, really: Double your rate of failure. You are thinking of failure as the enemy of success. But it isn’t at all. You can be discouraged by failure or you can learn from it, so go ahead and make mistakes. Make allContinue reading “Field Report: A New Venue And Lessons Learned”

Field Report: The Nurse and the Latina

“If you are not willing to risk the usual, you will have to settle for the ordinary.” Jim Rohn The Nurse I was recovering from an illness and hadn’t approached in about a week. I was pumped from a great gym session when I went to the grocery store to pick up some things. AsContinue reading “Field Report: The Nurse and the Latina”

Field Report: My First Fake Number

“Don’t let the fear of losing be greater than the excitement of winning.” Robert Kiyosaki Bookstore Approach I was at a bookstore walking around trying to find both a book and a cute girl to approach. I saw a girl who had a bunch of magazines sitting on a bench. She made eye contact asContinue reading “Field Report: My First Fake Number”

Field Report: My First Big Fiasco

“Success is walking from failure to failure with no loss of enthusiasm.” Winston Churchill “I am married and you’re being…” I was walking around Walmart while waiting for the tires on my car to be changed (for those of you that have ever done that at a Walmart, you know it takes forever) – butContinue reading “Field Report: My First Big Fiasco”

Field Report: Three Numbers in Four Sets

“I find that the harder I work, the more luck I seem to have.” Thomas Jefferson Gym Chick at Target I was shopping at Target on Sunday, had been there in a while and didn’t see any good sets. Out of the corner of my eye I saw a girl walking, and then I lookedContinue reading “Field Report: Three Numbers in Four Sets”